It is therefore appropriate to formulate a relationship contract in the early stages of a relationship. It is also important to be aware of any changes that may occur in the future in order to allow for the flexibility of the relationship. An agreement between two or more persons that imposes reciprocal obligations on them that can be applied in court. A valid contract must be offered by one person and accepted by the other, and some form of payment or other value must normally be exchanged between the contracting parties. Instead of a contract, Gottman recommends making sure your relationship has three qualities that he calls “the magic trio.” These properties are physiologically calm, even during conflicts (it nurtured the relationship with a port in a storm), trust and commitment. Strengthening each of those teeth requires a lot of intention and work, but it pays off, Gottman said…